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Competing with them, but some people solely because of fear of quarrels, not curse, so they leave a wrong impression.
 
Despite the appearance of calm, but the face of contradictory or unexpected damage to their interests, they really can be peace with, they have no complaints? Perhaps they have teeth to be offended in the hearts of his people lambasted,
It is not indifferent in the face of an air show.
 
This can explain their emotional intelligence (EQ) is very good, but on the other hand showed the weakness of their character  not to quarrel.
 
Why should they give? They are afraid of what? Look at the following example:
 
Kiki is normally the most favorite shopping (shopping), in addition to
The famous shopping department store counter, and she likes to go a number of stalls, as always accidentally buy a special thing.
 
Went to a rest day, Kiki went to her favorite shopping in a street, see if you can buy anything nice. She went to a store selling jewelry, fancy a very special brooch, looks pretty, and inexpensive, Kiki

Blamed, it is condemned for were wrong.
 
Third, you are not stick to their principles
 
If you do things always stick to their principles, and not contrary to moral and legal principles, even if doing so will make some people unhappy, not your fault, you have not been accused of reasons.
 
Fourth, you are determined to do harm to others

 
If for some of your actions hurt someone else, but this is not your intention, merely an honest mistake, then who would have the heart to criticize you? Of course, discovered admit their errors will happen in time better!
 
5, the whole thing is someone else’s fault
 
If you had an argument with people, but you do not make mistakes,
But someone playing rogue or irrational, the right to say anything, then what is to be criticized? Quickly for their own justice is!
 
 
Some people look very good, an aloof look, but this does not mean that he is not a dispute. They choose to do nice guys of the reasons may be because their own personal peace, is not

Justice for themselves!
 
Selftest before the curse: how to find out the reasons for not being scolded
 
As the saying goes "you can not take take a step," the former theory should first give their own to find a good reason, to analyze, in the end who is wrong, right or wrong. They have not been accused of being the
Reason?
 
One, you are to do their part
 
Whether you are the boss or employee, customer or waiter … … as long as you do is to comply with part of, in this case even if the person is offended, or harmed the interests of others, there is no reason to be criticized, because you do things their own fair
Share.
 
Second, there is no time admit
 
If you have done something wrong, but after their discovery promptly admit, you are no longer a reason to be scolded. As the saying goes: "men make mistakes too, over and can the hell." He knew a mistake, and acknowledged the error, that is, "have had to change to nothing," and then be

Fact, the real problem is that Cade back attitude when faced with conflict. He never thought to fight for themselves, just let the mercy of the boss, so he was scolded again and again to finally become a habit. In the face of conflict, Kidde could only think of their own mistake, but obviously did not think the boss’s attitude
Is also a violation of his personal.
 
Cade What is missing? A reason! Cade is missing is an inspiring spirit and boss him the reasons for recrimination, but he is not no such reason, but he did not carefully look for, or never even thought about other people they can not be scolded.
 
Conflicts encountered in life is inevitable, and
Sometimes we do not make mistakes, but really gave no reason to be, if you encounter this situation will eat their words, do not thinks it is you do not like to fuss , general knowledge with others. If you are not guilty of heinous crimes, there is no reason to be scolded. To be courageous enough to fight for

Very depressing thing: he exhausted his efforts to make the report to the boss, the thought suddenly have taken the information may be wrong, so he immediately phoned the boss, you want to re confirm.
 
The results can be imagined, Cade was the boss of the curse roundly meal right about face. Although the final data check changes finally finished,
But he grew more and more unhappy. Wrong in the end he did not know what we going to leave it at that lying may be wrong? Or the beginning should not make any mistakes? However, the error is not that he can avoid the, ah! Moreover, their report has been camped out for several nights, even if no credit
Has elbow grease, no elbow grease is also tired. If so, why still scolded?
 
Cade, of course this matter can not be said that they are completely right, in his report on the mistake, but after all timely remedy can not be regarded as "the sins of the beheaded," Nature should not have been so severely criticized the boss.
 
In

Who does not directly , but it really can be very annoying!
 
 
You encountered the following situation? In the company, on the road or the store, he did not do anything wrong, it was a bad deal, angry though you want to break out, but because of the courage, or that do not easily give up the idea worthy of
Theory. But home is always kept in mind, anything in the fire.
 
Why should abuse themselves? Why did not spot the people who gave it bad attitude or simply an argument? Perhaps you will feel some reason to curse each other, and we humbly accept not like it? As long as the matter can be resolved, other things are hard
To say.
 
Is the case simple? Look at the following example.
 
On the performance, Kidde is the companywide best, he should be the boss supposedly the most capable assistant, and most favor of employees. But do not know how happened, he was the company most often suffer the boss of the Dao Meigui.
 
Cade last week that took place a

We say "Three Character Classic" is going to be people ! Using Metaphor
 
Curse you really pig!
 
You idiot ah?
 
… … So sounds like calling someone a "Three Character Classic" big as harmful, but that still makes people feel more uncomfortable. Exposing weaknesses in the presence of blind people face he kept saying: "You blind ah!"
 
You know that
My colleagues, left out the most mind their origin, said: "bumpkin, you down your village?" As the saying goes: "do not beat up their faces, curse not Jieduan." Apt to say other people’s weaknesses, of course, makes hearts uncomfortable, say how much more would not annoying? Continued
 
Type example of resented how do you always … …
 
You should be
… … Although this is not really pleasant, even the motives may be good to each other, but people always pour cold water on, naturally not popular, and that will bring more people  it! Blatantly showing off to buy a new purse in his hand, showing off and said: "LV bag is also no way!"
 
… … So of course,

Extent? How do you be annoyed? What other words get on your nerves? What you say too much then? Which side do you feel justified?
 
When you put the whole matter to think clearly, they feel that they are indeed justified, you have good reason and the other to start a war of words, and you will definitely become a
Party to victory!
 
Selftest before the curse: easy  the language of others
 
If you want to confidently would disagree with an argument with each other, first and foremost of course, that you have a good reason. If someone  you, there would be no good thinking, though it wants to open; but if you  the others, it was nothing to say,
Nice to go back to it!
 
Loose lips,  other often because we said if people start feeling happy, so, first of all is to see what kind of words most likely to  do some good.
 
Easy words of others 
 
Type example of "Three Character Classic"
 
Abusive fuck … … who do not like being "greetings" elder relatives and friends, why

 
Staff did not expect temper coming up, "What is the attitude difference? Want a good attitude Hotel ah!"
 
Although Regal extremely angry and would like to criticize the meal that staff go back, but she do not know how to open. May be inherent weakness of character is everything, perhaps the poor eloquence, or perhaps just do not want to
Fuss with the clerk, and finally she left the swallow.
 
People who encounter this situation should be few, often the same people will be ignored as the Regal, but in his heart cursed a "how to do that?" Will obediently left. They do not want to be noisy, not derided each other, do not want to give each other a
Lesson? Of course not, very often we do not want to be noisy, clamoring clamoring just afraid that they would lost for reasons and noisy, but other people.
 
Therefore, if we ran into trouble, they do not want a weak phase, then, may wish to think carefully before mouth: how did things begin? How things will develop to such an

An "insult" why "insult"
 
Regal boss sent this morning by purchasing, scorching hot sun outside, but she forgot to bring umbrellas as walking a hurry, the whole person as a sun withered seedlings. Noon, hot and tired of the reggae do not want to spend any effort to find a good restaurant for dinner, and just casually find a roadside
Shop, take a rest, get something to eat.
 
Regal simple point of the two refreshing cold dishes, but eat half, suddenly found the dishes have a black thing. A closer look, but it was just dead flies. God! How to eat it go? nike dunks So called clerk, but the staff is snappily said: "The street vendors of things, what good stress,
And as you eat do not eat!"
 
What is "love do not eat?" Already heard of a stomach feels stifled the Regal staff of this sentence is more maddening. However, their is too tired and too busy regardless, could not eat a meal, stood up and prepare to leave, casually said one: "how to speak it so, so bad attitude."